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I do watch lots of black porn.

I feel like flirting is hard enough, but with race, identity, etc. What should I do?

We deliberated quite a lot as to whether or not this was a serious question or the work of a troll. However, as a black woman who grew up on the receiving end of attitudes such as yours, I am pretty convinced of its veracity.

What I write should help je, although I have to admit that in this instance helping you is not my main priority. Rather, I want to take this opportunity to expose the mechanics behind this way of thinking, and the ways in which these attitudes are damaging and dehumanizing to black people.

What is it about black girls that you find so attractive? We come in all different shades and sizes. Think about what it is that you are attracted to.

Is it a generalizable feature shared amongst all black women? What is that? It comes as little surprise to me that you watch a lot of black porn.

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The objectification of women in pornography shares many similarities with representation of black women in the white imagination. The idea that black women are sexually licentious and available has its antecedents in slavery and colonialism, so you are carrying on the enduring attitudes of that proud heritage.

Many high profile white men, such as the third president of the United States, Thomas Jefferson, had children with enslaved black women, and those children were then generally added to their slave stock. While you might think that your attentions are complimentary, they are in wmoen a pernicious form of racism.

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I have written elsewhere about being on the receiving end of exactly this type of attention and how damaging it was for me. So while I was perceived as attractive, it was complicated by race. Racialised in this way, I was situated at a complex intersection — simultaneously valuable and worthless.

Since we were first enslaved and then colonized, black people have operated as a canvas onto which the white imagination can project its fantasies. Also, part of the way through which our oppression was justified was to attempt to reduce us to the status of livestock.

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An important part of the process was the promotion of the idea that Europeans had intellect, while black people were valuable for their physical traits alone. This overemphasis on the physicality of black people remains part of the process of our overt sexualisation. What do you think blackness is?

What do you think it means? While black men and women are perceived differently to each other, ideas about the sexuality of both remain central to the stereotypes about us.

The aemrican l I met with your point of view, often had huge feelings of inadequacy towards black men, who they seemed to feel extremely sexually threatened by. My advice to you is when you meet a person that you genuinely like, regardless of their race, treat them as a unique human being, one with their own individual likes, dislikes and idiosyncrasies.

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Not a representative of some sort of one-dimensional figment of your imagination. We got enough crap to contend with. In her regular amerifan, Emma Dabiri fields your questions on race and identity in contemporary Ireland. Filed under:.